Every Jewish child deserves a meaningful Bar or Bat Mitzvah experience.
If your child has a learning difference, behavioral challenge, or special need—and hasn’t attended traditional Hebrew School—don’t assume a Bar or Bat Mitzvah is out of reach.
Rabbi Jason has worked with hundreds of families to make this milestone possible for teens of all abilities. With compassion, patience, and years of experience, he designs tailor-made mitzvah experiences that celebrate each child’s strengths and individuality.
Whether your teen is on the autism spectrum, has ADHD, dyslexia, anxiety, executive functioning challenges, or other unique learning needs, Rabbi Jason will work closely with your family to craft a meaningful, customized ceremony that meets your child where they are—and makes them shine.
No challenge is too great. What matters most is creating a moment that honors your teen’s connection to Judaism and welcomes them fully into the Jewish community.
You’ll be guided through every step of the process, including:
Flexible learning plans tailored to your child’s needs and learning style
Ceremonies that can take place in a synagogue, private venue, or even your home
Modifications to the format, length, and content of the service
Creative ways to incorporate your child’s talents—music, art, or storytelling
With the right team, thoughtful planning, and heart, every child can have a Bar or Bat Mitzvah that feels authentic and empowering.
In 1987, a young boy named Joel Hornstein stood before a community to celebrate his Bar Mitzvah. Diagnosed with autism and once non-verbal, Joel defied expectations and read from the Torah in both English and Hebrew. His ceremony broke barriers and opened doors for countless Jewish children with disabilities.
Since then, families across the country have embraced inclusive mitzvah celebrations, proving that with collaboration, care, and creativity, these beautiful milestones are possible for every child.
Creating a meaningful Bar or Bat Mitzvah for a child with special needs takes time, teamwork, and thoughtful planning. Rabbi Jason will collaborate with you and your child—along with educators, therapists, or other support professionals, to develop a ceremony rooted in your teen’s strengths.
Questions like:
What setting feels most comfortable for the ceremony?
What style of learning works best?
Can we incorporate music, art, or storytelling?
What adjustments can be made for overstimulation or attention span?
…will all be considered with care and respect.
From brief, quiet ceremonies to celebratory services with friends and family, the focus is always on creating a positive, empowering experience.
If you’ve ever wondered whether a Bar or Bat Mitzvah is possible for your child, let’s talk. Rabbi Jason is here to listen, answer questions, and walk with you every step of the way. Every Jewish child deserves to feel celebrated, included, and connected to their heritage.
“Teach each child according to their path.” – Proverbs 22:6